Because we are not dealing with the conspiracy itself but rather an intricate self-protecting identity, helping your loved one find freedom becomes a delicate issue. I have heard many stories of evidence being explained away or ignored, reports of failed attempts to challenge the foundations of a belief, encountering hostility, and one that I have personally dealt with repeatedly, unabashed deflection. The truth is, we cannot disprove a conspiracy theory to a conspiracy theorist for two reasons.
First, a conspiracy theorist interprets every point we make as a personal attack. They see counterpoints as an attack. This occurs because the…
Why Conspiracy Theories?
Powerlessness comes with a sinister list of side effects. A powerless person will look for self-worth, uniqueness and attempt to understand a world that is, by its nature, without order. It is a pain that leads a person to hold tightly to an imaginative and wildly unsupported claim. That pain allows a thinking person to accept a thing without thought.(1) In an attempt to regain that power, a conspiracy theory presents itself, and often it isn’t just accepted as a possible truth but as an identity reclaimed. The person becomes the theory, not just accepts the theory…
It’s a tale as old as time. Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love and marries girl. Boy starts staying up late watching YouTube videos and becomes increasingly convinced that a cabal of nefarious Jewish businessmen controls the world. Hollywood is in on it, and America is ground zero for a possible lizard-human republic led by the Illuminati. Girl feels alone and confused as to what happened to boy.
Reading through support groups such as Reddit’s r/QAnonCasualties demonstrates just how non-farfetched this scenario is. With well over 50% of Americans believing conspiracy theories today, there is a good chance that…
My first flight.
Part one of a series about the lessons learned over four months while earning my pilot’s license in 2020.
I was nervous as we walked to the plane that day in August, not because I was scared of death or injury, but because deep down, I didn’t believe I had it in me to be a pilot even though it was my childhood dream. I grew up in a small town after my Dad retired from the Air Force as a truck mechanic. I would often watch the planes flying overhead in wonder. …
The story of a country built on very different views, and how that unites us.
Like Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, increasingly, our country bifurcates into two houses predicated on moral mandates intrisic to who we are: House Conservative and House Liberal.
Most of us realize this, but we don’t often consider that this is by design. Why is the Republican platform and Evangelical Christianity linked in the minds of most Americans? Why are Democrats the social justice progressives? Can they co-exist?
Early on, deeply held beliefs divided us into two camps. Federalism and statism competed for control to shape our…
It can be hard to talk to someone that you believe is a racist. How do you even do that?
The moment the word racist enters the conversation in reference to another person or something they believe, even if it’s a loose association, the brain releases a stress hormone in the body of the person that you are asserting is a racist. We identify this hormone as shame. The brain always protectively responds to this hormone to avoid harm to our psyche. In response to this shame hormone we have to dominate and regain control to re-establish mental equilibrium. We…
Statistics can be one of the most divisive and harmful misinformation tools, and I have seen it all over Facebook. I have attempted to make sense of the apparent conflict of reality that statistics represent. I knew nothing about data science when I began to write this, and after researching, I realized that I am woefully unprepared for this attempt. That said, I decided to give it a try. (Note: I know that I have a bias towards the existence and ubiquitousness of systemic racism. This article is a general critique, but on second reading, my examples betray that bias.)
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We are becoming increasingly polarized. Not since the Civil War have we been so far apart ideologically in our country.(1) Even during the lead up to the Civil War, we often found more in common then we do today.
Not only are we polarizing faster than we ever have as a country, it’s happening more than any other democracy on earth.(2) To see just how polarized we have become, just look at this graph from the Pew Research Center:
How America’s Ministry of Propaganda is decentralized and highly active.
Years before that encounter, I remember walking the clinical and dark grounds of the Auschwitz concentration camp with my Grandfather as a 3rd grader. I had never seen him cry before that day. I had one question when we entered the gas chambers and saw the pictures of the bodies of murdered Jews. How?
How can a young child on a bus in rural Arkansas be so filled with hate, and how can an entire country be so willing to participate in an atrocity such as the holocaust?
My study…
We are wondering why we can’t go back to the normality that we enjoyed a mere three weeks ago, others just don’t see what all the fuss is all about. Instead of investigating, we argue about the Confederate Flag over morning coffee and get into semantical debates about hashtags. I believe now is the right time to look back at how the hell we got here.
For three centuries, America tolerated the legal bondage of human beings. Reconstruction lasted for 12 years following the end of the Civil War, seeing little to no positive results for the African American community(1)…
As Creative Director in Austin, Texas with a background in counseling, Jon finds a way to connect the intangible to the tangible.